Deception, Lying Or Cheating?
Our society is governed by certain rules and customs we need to respect to fit in. Some such customs work well on one side, but work against people’s natural feelings on the other. Cheating is average description of this one act, it happens very often in most countries. And the word “cheating” implies doing something almost against the law, it implies being dishonest, fake, hurting others. But in fact it is not against the law in most cases, it is simply against good common nature and morals between people.
When you have a serious loving relationship with your partner, man or woman, or even husband or wife, it is expected that you will maintain it, support it, and do nothing that would hurt or break it. But one day you meet another person and without much preparation or planning you get closer and have sex with her. Or him. Whatever the circumstances are. You met accidentally or you knew each other for a while. When it’s over, it’s over, you just say bye and go back home to your normal partner. But … you have just cheated on her. She would not approve what happened, you did not only cheated on your wife, you acted as someone who does not love her.
On another time you met a random person, she was attractive, you got closer and could not resist, so you touched her, she did the same to you, you kissed her. Nothing else happened, then you said bye … and you have just cheated too.
Some couples out there do not recognize this custom. When they are honest and they both have that same opinion and respect it, then they cannot cheat. They can have another partner, they have him or her for anything they enjoy and because it is ok with their usual partner, it should be fine. This is not common, but folks who practice this defend it and claim they could not live under the standard customs, where one is supposed to be faithful and live and love only with one partner.
Both standards are difficult for people who follow the other standard. Being faithful also often appears not to be natural, most people enjoy having sex, making love and only a few have done it in their life with only one person. So it is natural. But we are a society that needs to function to survive and part of it are certain rules and customs that apply for everyone. We are also affected by powerful organizations such as religions, some religious governments, and other organizations that simply like to force people to do whatever they like to promote.
This story follows the standard customs, where normal couple should be two people and nobody is supposed to jump in. The couple has entered into marriage, they eventually have 2 kids. Man seemed to be normal family type, she was different even though she claimed she was a family type too. But her lifestyle record shows she is quite different.
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